Quoting, because I feel EVERYONE needs to read this. I may identify as happily female, but this was uncalled for. For those who will TL;DR this, DA has officially pissed on the intersex folks. This has been poorly handled by 3 (count'em) DA "Customer Service" folks.
I DID NOT WRITE THIS, IT IS WRITTEN BY ~split-complex
deviantART, binarism, and transphobia
http://transfinite.dreamwidth.org/215469.html link to the original post, reposted from Mottenfest.
I didn't want to actually make a big, public deal of this. I'd hoped it could be solved quietly and without a huge incident. But it looks like it's not going to work out that way, so